Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Whose to Judge?
"If you judge people you have no time to love them" Mother Teresa
Recently we have experienced some VERY judgmental people in our lives. John in particular has had people who have stated they do not approve of his actions and tell him what a bad person/example he is. These people have been influential in his life for decades. It is hard to witness this discrimination and judgment from people who have sorted pasts! For example: One person who has been in a hand full of relationship (some marriages, some not) through his life time....feels the need to condemn John for moving from his first relationship to his second. The difference between the two is that the accuser is heterosexual and John is homosexual.
My argument is that they are relationships (period) sexuality does not matter! What gives the accuser the right to point a finger at John!?!?! I do not understand this rational? Is this a perceived sexual privilege? I would suggest that individuals who insist on throwing out judgments needs to get their own lives in order (which is a continual process). Since we are all trying to sort out our own lives.....JUDGMENTS SHOULD NOT HAPPEN!!!!